An oldie but goodie from the MBMurrayWrites archives! This piece was published in The Greenwich (Conn.) Time, October 30, 1994 My 4-year-old son’s lower lip quivered as he pointed to the empty step in front of our Riverside home. The day before, a 12-inch jack-o-lantern had waited there to frighten trick-or-treaters who would soon call….